Trans Day of Visibility 2018

Today, March 31st, is Trans Day of Visibility!

This years theme, hosted by Trans Student Educational Resources or TSER, is “surviving, thriving.” Aiming to acknowledge all of the wonderful accomplishments made by trans people in the past twelve months.

We are not only surviving the Trump regime but we are making strides to transform how people think about gender around the world. In the increasingly transphobic global political climate, we must use our newfound visibility to mobilize trans people against oppression. Speaking out, taking direct action, and educating others is critical to our safety and wellbeing. This recognizes that while visibility is important, we must take action against transphobia. (TSER)

Since I am not trans, I want to highlight some amazing trans people whose content I follow!

Youtubers:

Ash Hardell: Ash is a non-binary, pansexual youtuber who creates educational LGBTQIA+ content. They also wrote a book called the ABC’s of LGBT, and are a fierce ally for the whole LGBTQIA+ community.

Jackson Bird: Jackson is a bisexual, trans man, who creates youtube videos covering a wide variety of topics, including books and being LGBTQIA+. He also has a very successful series called “Will it Waffle?” where he puts different foods on a waffle iron to see what happens, and his reactions are always priceless.

Stef Sanjati: Stef is a trans woman who makes videos about style and beauty, as well as documenting her journey transitioning. She has also recently become vocal about her eating disorder, and is an advocate for those with mental illnesses.

Podcasts:

You’re so Brave: You’re so Brave is hosted by Chase Ross and Aaron Ansuini, both of which are tans men. Their podcast talks about tans issues and the trans experience in general. Chase also identifies as pansexual and Aaron identifies as asexual.

How to Not: How to Not is a podcast where Kaitlyn Alexander and Rob Moden read Wikihow articles and discuss the nonsense that comes along with them. Kaitlyn identifies as non-binary and queer. This is one of my favorite podcasts, because it always makes me laugh and puts me in a good mood. Kaitlyn also makes youtube videos, including a web-series that they wrote and starred in, and they starred in the web-series Carmilla.

WordPress Bloggers:

Color it Queer: I had the honor of having Jess from Color it queer guest post on my blog a couple of weeks ago. She is both queer and disabled like myself, and blogs about a plethora of things including being LGBTQIA+, disability, and activism.

Almost, Almost: I really love the blog Almost, Almost! They are non-binary and post about LGBTQIA+ representation in books. They are the reason I read Dress Codes for Small Towns, which is now one of my favorite books, and they always inspire me to read more Queer YA fiction.

I hope you all check out some of these amazing trans people! Leave some of your favorite trans content creators below, so we can all support even more talented trans folks!

tdov 2018

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The Intersection of Queerness and Disability: Guest Post- Color it Queer

I’m excited to share a guest post with y’all from the wonderful Color it Queer! She is a blogger who, like myself, is both queer and disabled. The intersection of our identities is not spoken about enough, and is very underrepresented. Sharing stories, like Jess’, is so important in order to bring awareness about our experiences. Jess has a great blog where she talks about being queer and disabled, and she also works with marginalized queer youth, which is super cool. Be sure to check out her blog, and post below!

I’m Jess, and my gender pronouns are she, her, hers. I’m queer and nonbinary and not afraid to be super open about it. You can probably tell from all the stereotypes I fall into, but my disability is invisible. However, you can kind of see it from the scar I have on my head.

I have epilepsy, making me a minority within a minority, a queer person with a disability.

Here’s my story:

It all started in third grade the day after Christmas when my grandma came in to check on me since it was late in the morning. I wasn’t sleeping in though, I had been having a seizure. My seizures were bad when I was young, where I’d have to go to the hospital to get them to stop. We eventually had my seizures under control with medication, but around the time I hit puberty, they started getting bad. By high school and into college I was averaging at about a seizure a month. These seizures were not “as bad,” where I’d literally be able to just go to class after. I had become “the sick child” where I’d constantly be getting more attention than my sister because my mom, who is a single parent, was always worried about me. For example, I couldn’t take a shower with her being home.

I graduated high school in 2013 and that summer, I started looking into brain surgery. It was always an option but something I think I saw as really risky and not worth it. My seizures were hard to deal with, but I was a “trooper.” I never wanted to miss a day of school or go home from a headache. I had been trying other things like tons of medication changes over the years, going gluten free, and even a diet that’s similar to the South Beach Diet. But eventually, I decided to look into surgery with my mom. After a bunch of tests to see if I’m a candidate (aka will I lose senses in my left-hand that I write with since my seizures are on my right side and the ride side controls the left?)

Months later, when I started college, I found out I was a good candidate and planned to have it the following summer so I could recover. Fast forward to the following May 29th of 2014 when I go into surgery that is two parts. The first part was the surgeon cutting open my skull to attach wires to provoke seizures and clarify exactly where the seizures were coming from. Luckily, they were only coming from one place and the second part was the surgeon taking that piece out. As for recovery, by the end of August, I was at an Ingrid Michaelson concert in Central Park and didn’t spend much time recovering, that I can remember.

Since I’ve had my surgery, I’ve only had one seizure, unfortunately, on a bus. That was 2016 I think. I have a horrible memory.

But you said you’re queer, right?

Yes! I didn’t come out until after my surgery. I had been questioning my sexuality, but didn’t come out and seek more professional resources (other than people saying you’ll figure it out, no worries) until my sophomore year of college. Well, actually, I came out to my mom as questioning and then that Spring semester started seeking support from my school’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer Center. Then I came out as lesbian.

The following year of college, I moved onto campus into Stonewall Suites, my school’s LGBTQ/Gender Inclusive living community. This was awesome because even though my school was literally a 7 minute drive from my house, and my sister went there, I was there super often and didn’t drive, so it made sense that I lived there. I was finding so much community among other queer folks and got my first kiss ever that year. IT was very exciting time that included lots of new experiences at in my junior year, including starting my blog. Then my senior year, I really found my passion for activism when I became a peer educator at the LGBTQ Center. This connects back to the disability piece because along with outreach work, I facilitated a group called QBility, looking at the intersection of being queer and having a disability.

What now?

Glad you asked! Now, I’m still on medication and still deal with side affects that are a huge bummer, but I’m overall in pretty good health. And I also live across the country in Portland, OR. I moved here after graduating with a degree in Journalism with a minor in LGBTQ Studies for an AmeriCorps VISTA program with Veterans Services. I don’t recommend it (that’s another story–email me). I might be bias because my project closed after 4 months. Luckily, I have a rad job working at a youth home of LGBTQ Youth who are on probation/parole. I love it here in Portland, and the disability piece comes into play again with my lover. Portland has given me lots of firsts as a queer person, and it’s also where I came out as nonbinary. My lover and I have a rad connection around being sick. She taught me that some folks look at being sick as an “inconvenience” when she was diagnosed with mono and celiacs disease and worried that it’d change how I felt about her. But that’s far from the truth. It’s quite the opposite, as we bond over conversations of not feeling bad for being sick or just wanting to cuddle because I know where she’s coming from, and can still relate.

If you want to learn more about me or about the queer community you can check out my blog Color it Queer, here.